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How to Really Do What You Say You Want to Do

Do you find yourself making commitments to yourself over and over that you just don’t keep?

I know I do. My intentions are good. But my follow-through needs work!

Here are a few of the proclamations I’ve made over the years:

  • On Monday, I will start my new fitness program.

  • Okay, this week I’m really going to have some quiet time with God first thing in the morning before anything else.

  • Today, I will be more patient with my kids!

I’m not quoting directly, but once I heard Beth Moore say, “Sometimes, you just gotta pray about yer want to.” The light bulb flashed. It was just what I needed to hear. First of all, I wasn’t the only one struggling with doing what I “want to.” And second, I could ask God to help me. Yes! I can pray about my “want to.”

The fact is there are many things I want to do, changes I want to make, that I simply don’t make. I know the change will make me happier and healthier, and impact those around me too. I am more pleasant to be around when I’m following through on what I say I want to do – goals, visions, resolutions.

Frankly, I don’t love this cycle of not doing what I say I want to do.

I feel defeated, weak-willed, and ashamed of it.

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